Kindred
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Add it once. It’s on both your phones.

Kindred is a free iPhone app for partners. Share the groceries, split the chores and plan dinner together.

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    The 30-second version

    For both of you.

    Groceries that land on both phones, chores you split between you, tonight’s dinner, and a night out you both said yes to. Every screen in the film is the real app with sample people.

    Groceries and to-dos

    One list, in both your colors.

    Maya adds oat milk and it shows up on Theo’s phone a moment later. Every item keeps the color of whoever added it, so you can tell at a glance who asked for what.

    Check something off at the store and it’s checked off at home too. Delete something by mistake and it waits 30 days in Recently deleted.

    Maya’s Groceries list, sorted by aisle. Items Maya added carry a purple M, items Theo added a green T.
    Maya
    Theo’s phone showing the same Groceries list, with the same colors.
    Theo
    Siri, Apple Watch and Messages

    Add with Siri, Apple Watch or Messages.

    Say “Add to our groceries in Kindred” and tell Siri the item. Dictate it on your Apple Watch, or add it from Kindred in the Messages app drawer.

    Whoever is out can add to the list without opening the app.

    Maya’s Groceries list with Bananas at the top, marked with Theo’s green T.
    Theo added bananas
    Chores

    Split the chores. Kindred remembers.

    Make any to-do repeat every day, every week, every two weeks or on a day of the month. When it’s due, it’s back on the list for both of you.

    Tap “I’m on it” and the other phone says so, so the recycling goes out once. You both get a reminder until it’s done.

    The To-do list. Change the sheets and Water the plants are due today, and both read Theo’s on it.
    Theo’s on it
    Meals

    Know what’s for dinner.

    Plan the week’s meals together and pick who’s cooking. Share a recipe from Instagram or any recipe site and Kindred keeps its ingredients and steps. One tap sends the week’s ingredients to the grocery list.

    Tonight’s dinner sits at the top of Home and on a Home Screen widget. Or ask Siri, “What’s for dinner tonight in Kindred?”

    Kindred’s Home screen for Wednesday: tonight is Tacos and Maya is cooking, then the next event and what’s due today.
    The Meals list: Tacos tonight, then Salmon and rice tomorrow and Mushroom risotto any night.
    Date ideas

    And find a night that’s just yours.

    Save a restaurant or a trip from any app, or type a date idea into Kindred. You each answer I’m in, Maybe or Not now, and your partner’s answer stays hidden until you’ve given yours.

    When you’re both in, Kindred offers the evenings you’re both free first.

    A date idea card, Nocturne jazz supper, marked You’re both in, with a Pick a night button.
    You’re both in

    Both your days

    Your calendars side by side on one day, in your colors. You choose whether your partner sees the details or just “busy”.

    Nudges

    Send a quick “grabbing tacos?” that arrives as a notification and sits on their Home Screen widget.

    Widgets

    Your partner’s photo on your Home Screen, tonight’s dinner and today’s list at a glance.

    Privacy

    Private to the two of you

    Kindred has no server of its own and no account to make. Everything you add lives in your own iCloud and is shared only with your partner.

    • No ads and no tracking. Kindred collects no data about you.
    • The developer can’t read your lists or nudges. Nudges are end-to-end encrypted.
    • Read the privacy policy.
    Questions

    Before you download.

    How much does it cost?
    Kindred is free. Sharing with your partner is free too, and nothing is locked behind a subscription.
    What do we need?
    Each of you needs an iPhone on iOS 18 or later, signed in to iCloud. Apple Watch is optional and needs watchOS 11 or later.
    What if only one of us uses it?
    Kindred works on one phone, so you can start alone and invite your partner later. When they join, what you’ve added moves into your shared lists. A partner who rarely opens apps can still add things with Siri, Apple Watch or Messages.
    Who can see our lists?
    Only the two of you. There’s no account and no Kindred server, and the developer can’t read your lists or nudges. The privacy policy has the details.
    Where do we get it?
    Kindred is free on the App Store for iPhone, as Kindred: Couples Coordination.

    Kindred. For both of you.

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